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ABOUT a RELATIONSHIP
Although expecting a partner to make u feel happy all the time is unreasonable, being with the right person can bring happiness and a sense of personal strength to your life.
U will know u have chosen the right person when u feel the support and encouragement about your own growth, both emotionally and intellectually. The right person will want u to be emotionally healthy and able to stand on your own two feet.
When u are with the right person u will feel good about yourself, safe and fulfilled. The right person will not be negative, selfish, wishy-washy, silent, embarrassing, critical or a slob. So, do not spend your life with an unworthy person, even if it is just friends.
U will know you are choosing the right person if your partner says “I love u” not only in words spoken, but by loving actions as doing things such as noticing when u r tired, remembering your birthday, wanting to spend time with u, listening to u, showing u respect, calling if they r running late, showing u affection, being patient with u if u do not understand something. kissing u hello and goodbye and hugging u for no special reason.
U will know u have chosen the right person if u are sexually compatible with one another. If the two of u view sexual intimacy differently or have different libidos, your relationship will suffer.
The right person is someone who you like and who is your friend. The right person will enjoy spending time with u. The right person is kind, considerate and polite. Little things in life such as saying “thank u” and holding a door open may seem old-fashioned, but they do reflect the amount of caring and kindness in a person.
U and the right person will have similar goals and values in life. Having different likes and different opinions is okay as long as the two of u agree to disagree. Although u may not always agree with one another, conversations with the right person will be interesting and not boring. The right person will communicate thoughts and feelings with u and will not keep hurts and concerns bottled up inside.
Understanding that the only constant in life is change, the right person is willing to discuss any issues, questions and topics with u both before and after u get hitched.The right person will encourage u to make decisions to live a healthy lifestyle by eating healthier food, mixing around with valuable people and getting exercise.
It is important that the person you choose is someone who is understanding and agreeable to your wants and needs when it comes to sex and affection.
The right person will want to work with u to balance your work and personal lives. Finding the right person does not mean that the two of u would not have difficulties or differences to deal with. However, with the right person u will know that the two of u will be able to work through the issues that could hurt your relationship. The way u handle disagreements and conflicts should outstandingly be shown more than what u fight about.
The right person is honest with u. The right person will trust u and not monitor your phone calls or computer usage, or limit the amount of time u spend with others u care about.You will know u have chosen the right person if your partner does not try to isolate u from your family and friends. U not only need to belong to family, friends, groups, etc., u have the right to do so. The right person in your life will want to share a life with u.
The wrong person will make u feel as if u have to walk on egg shells in order to keep peace in your surroundings. U should not have to defend wanting privacy or time alone. U will know u have chosen the right person when u are not questioned about your need for ‘me-time’ or personal space.
The right person will trust u and not spy on u. Feeling as if u have to justify your every move will become a very heavy burden. The right person is someone who knows how to communicate. Not just communicating, but communicating with rules and manners that make u two still feel in comfort and ease.
But whatever it is, finding a partner is not as easy as buying a candy. It is more to buying a car I think. It feels so good when u first drive it with pride and integrity. Once it breaks down, needs repair, needs modification, it is when the game starts to begin.
So, good luck guys.. Whoever u are with now, I believe that you believe they are the right one… x)
~ © Unknown Writer ~
So! Find Yours? INSYA ALLAH I’ve found mine 🙂 AMIEN…