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My Jonah is So Damn Complex!

...wondering...

like a slap in the face

that’s just exactly what i felt read a few line from a godamn heavy book *after swearing all over again at my damn skripsi and feeling desperate plus extremely sad* called INTERPERSONAL DINAMIC and found myself drowning on Maslow’s pages…

he said *to his students actually*”Do you plan to be a psychologist?” “Well, yes!’ “Are you in training to be a mute or and inactive psychologist? What’s the adventage of that? That’s not a good path to self-actualization. No, you must want to be a first class psycholoist, meaning the best, the very best you are capable of becoming. If you deliberately plan to be less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you’ll be deeply unhappy for the rest of your life. You will be evading your own capacities, your own possibilities.”

As if he was talking to me back then. And start to ask myself.. what kind of psychologist im planning to be? or do i even still got that plan to be godamn psychologist? do i have the guts? do i really be able to push myself to reach my peak?

ever heard of The Jonah Complex? It is a partly a justified fear of being torn apart, of losing control, of being shattered and disintegrated, even being killed by the experience. Great emotions after all can in fact overwhelm us.

Truth it is… and i do believe that the biggest fear of mine is a fear of success, thou i never know exactly how’s it gonna be when i succeed… in every aspect of live, love, all!

aaaaaaaaah….

LORD… let me be what’s best from me… AMIEN…

34 comments on “My Jonah is So Damn Complex!

  1. R' Kurniawan
    April 28, 2008

    aduw… kok bhs inggris sih?
    ini posting buat orang bule ya mba?
    sumpah bhs inggrisku payah
    jadi gak bs koment bagus2 nih

    huhuhuhuuh……..

    hehehe ga buat bule mas…
    cuma kebeneran buku yang dijiplaknya edisi inggris sih…
    jadi ajah :p
    mangga atuh komen di yang laen ajah hehehe

  2. antown
    April 29, 2008

    boleh saya jujur? kalo itu gambar di atas goresan mbak, saya sangat kagum sekali. gambarnya berkarakter, penuh emosi!!

    mantap

    hehehe dengan penuh kejujuran musti diakui itu bukan gambar saya… hasil menggoogling yang kira kira mirip tampang saya saat itu :p

  3. fisha17
    April 29, 2008

    Yeah like Tukul always said, ‘success is a terror.’😆 someting like that, maybe he’s right. But what’s a matter with u? Why u affraid? Are u a paranoid? Eh inggrisku bener gak seh. Dah lama gak ngomong bule.:mrgreen:

    what matter with me is that i am losing a hope😛 hm bener ga yah? tanyakan pada yang lebih expert lagi sajah hehehe

  4. arda86
    April 29, 2008

    baca paragraf 1… “hmmmm ya ya ya…ngerti ngerti…”
    baca paragraf 2… “mulai bingung dan melotot2 sok serius (karena ngga ngerti) sambil pegang kamus oxford (malah bikin bingung)”
    baca paragraf 3… “pingsan dengan mulut berbusa”

    kesimpulannya KO di paragraf 3…seperti judulnya…so damn complex😆

    huehuehuehuheuh tapapalah…

  5. warmorning
    April 29, 2008

    do i really be able to push myself to reach my peak?

    of course you can, definitely ! even such as a smart girl like you, huh why people from psychology i ever know always smart n expert n their english ?🙂


    huh? smart? who? where? :p

  6. warmorning
    April 29, 2008

    bukan jonah complex ah, tapi lebih ke natazya complex🙂, kok malah inget buku sybil yg baru kebaca ituh yah ..😀


    deuh… sing amit amit jadi sama ama sybil mah heuheuheuhe

  7. achoey sang khilaf
    April 29, 2008

    ga jadi komentar ah
    ga ngerti😆

    gapapah… udah baca tulisan aneh ini juga sudah sukur hehehe

  8. GR
    April 29, 2008

    Lha?

    Don’t worried of success, nat…
    cuz that will not make yourself drowning into darkness. Just think what you do at the moment and the success will welcome you at the future…

    *sok ngartos pdhl pilon*😀

  9. indra1082
    April 29, 2008

    Walah bahasa Bule…
    Potone sopo iku?? hehehehe

    poto saya tapi ceritanya saja😉

  10. GR
    April 29, 2008

    Keep on fire and don’t be stressed..
    Just relax and joy it..
    Don’t worry be happy, kan ada aku…
    *halah.. GR GR!*
    hehe…😛

  11. GR
    April 29, 2008

    Zah.. Gagal hetrix nih …

    *ngeloyor pergi*

    di atas atas teh ngomong apah? :p hehehe gagal… try again next time heuhuehuehe

  12. nengthree
    April 29, 2008

    karna pake bahasa inggris, aku ga bisa komen deh..
    ekspresi gambarnya bagus tuh, gambar siapa nat?


    gambar orang buu hehehe

  13. itikkecil
    April 29, 2008

    Not only the psychologist might has Jonah complex. A counselor like HIV counselor also might has that.


    siapa saja bisa… cuma kebeneran yang ngomong Maslow dan di kelas calon psikolog jadi yah begitulah😉

  14. ratutebu
    April 29, 2008

    yup,, just do yor best ang let GOD do the rest,,

    cuma dia yang tau apa yang bagus buat kita,, sukses atau ga suksesnya kan tergantung cara kita memandangnya,, kegagalan itu tidak pernah ada,, yang ada hanya kesuksesan yang tertunda,,

    jangan pernah lupa, bahwa selalu saja ada hikmah disetiap kejadian,, ganbatte ne!!!:mrgreen: nice post sist!! ^^


    yeap… i do believe that thou! thanks siez!

  15. insansains
    April 29, 2008

    ^_^ Seneng baca buku-buku psikologi juga yach Non?
    Yups.. setuju dengan Mss. ratutebu : Tak ada sebutir kejadian pun yang sia-sia!
    ^_^ Send your SMILE. …. ^_^

    demen ama musti ada bedanya sih hehehe
    akupun setuju dengannya!
    makasih smile nya ^_^

  16. wahyu
    April 29, 2008

    I am imagining now……

    If that girl is the girl who I’m loving right now…..

    Oh… No….. I’m gonna be sick…. She’s so…. DAMN….!!!! Is it the real face…??? l


    eits… dont judge a girl by her face huhuhu

  17. alid abdul
    April 29, 2008

    damn it… love the slap pic hehehe….

    love it too for sure!😉

  18. dtRS
    April 29, 2008

    gbrny ga begitu rapi, g begitu bagus, g begitu indah, tp belum tentu gw bisa….. heheheh….. 😛

    ah… akupun ta bisa :p

  19. theloebizz
    April 29, 2008

    u r the best creature God ever created and so with everyone, with their unique points inside…😉

    indeed we are!

  20. hilda
    April 29, 2008

    hmm,, so that’s The Jonah Complex.
    bout success,,somehow i just believe that i’ll be success in the future. no matter what happens today, i’ll be success, for sure.

    thats the spirit!

  21. senny
    April 29, 2008

    pasti bisa kok, bu! need2 try harder aja… pasti bisa kok…
    good luck, yes!


    TENGKYU SAY…..

  22. chatoer
    April 29, 2008

    Keep Struggling and no smoking hehehe
    there is a will, there is a way….

    Asyik ketemu lagi istilah2 psikologi,
    -jonah komplex
    -sybil

    kalo maslow mah taunya yg piramida kebutuhan manusia

    oedipus complex, imbisil, bla, bla, bla


    da sybil mah nama orang tau… huehueheuehue pamer istilah xixixi

    *ngapalin istilah2

  23. hanggadamai
    April 30, 2008

    wuahh, bahasa inggris lagi😥

    hahuahuahuahua bahasa inggris ko cry :p

  24. gamma
    April 30, 2008

    ayoo, nat,kamu bisaaa…😀

    hehe,nyelonong.. permisii…salam kenaal…

    hihihi salam kenal juga buuuu

  25. chic
    April 30, 2008

    Jonah Complex? baru denger… hehehehe

    akupun baru huehuehuhue

  26. kelepon
    April 30, 2008

    hahahha kayanya cuman bukan aku aja yang bingung ni..😀
    ahh bahasa inggris lagi😦

    kenapa yah… ah… aku merasa bersalah :p

  27. Raffaell
    April 30, 2008

    at that time…..
    Ill let it all flow and enjoying doing crazy things…..

    then i laugh..

    yeap… to laugh at own stupidity is the best thing people rare to do!

  28. Zulmasri
    April 30, 2008

    Sory lidah saya lagi payah beringgris ria, mending blognya saya link saja.

    okay pak ^_^

  29. langitjiwa
    May 1, 2008

    bentar aku buka kamus dulu,hehehehehehe….

    mangga… masih banyak waktu :p

  30. wennyaulia
    May 1, 2008

    * fast reading
    jadi mbak jonah itu siapa to?🙄

    heuheuhuehueueh jonah itu laki lho… :p

  31. realylife
    May 1, 2008

    amin
    hope God heard all of our request , be best in our lives

    AMIN…

  32. aminhers
    May 1, 2008

    Be patient please Miss.Nata !

  33. Anizuw
    May 8, 2008

    gue bangeeeeeeetttt….

    sedih karena kenyataannya emang I’m inactive psychologist, but what can I do now?

    I love being housewife, I love being lazy and wake up every morning and do nothing beside running daily routine as a Mom and wife…

    Well,

    I have to keep my plan on track but surely have to pending those juicy plans a bit longer. Continued studying psychology takes lot time and preasure, I cant handle it with my baby running and keep asking “why?” , “What?”, “how?”, “when?”…..

    Tapi kita mesti janji nat, suatu saat kita bisa nerusin ilmu batin ini ke next level…paling ngga semua test diagnostik yg kita pelajarin, buku2 yg kita garis2 ngga jadi sia2…ihiks….

    trully maddy saddly!!!

    postingan yg menohok hati!!!

  34. acid_storm
    October 20, 2009

    I don’t understand the half of the comments. Which language is it? Indian or something?

    Well, don’t worry about that, you’ll be unhappy anyway… if you’re going to be that way.

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