If its Not So Important To U, Well It Is For Me

some things are better left written

Untuk Perempuan-Perempuan yang Kusayangi

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away

If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow
your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what
makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t
“be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is.
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.”
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of
different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why
would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from him
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything.* He will use it
against you later.

You cannot change a man’s behavior.* Change comes
from within.

Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you
are… even if he has more education or in a better
Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else’s man.

If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to
treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the
bending…compromis e is a two
Way street.

You need time to heal between relationships. ..there is
nothing cute
about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing
a new

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a
relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. ..
look for someone complimentary. ..not supplementary.

Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr.

Make him miss you sometimes… when a man always know
where you are, and you’re always readily available to
him – he takes it for granted. –
Isn’t this TRUE!!!!!

Never move into his mother’s house.

Never co-sign for a man.

Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you
everything that you need.* Keep him in your radar but
get to know others.

Share this with other women… You’ll make someone
smile, another rethink her choices, and another prepare.

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This entry was posted on September 24, 2007 by in sum taken stuffs.

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