like a slap in the face
that’s just exactly what i felt read a few line from a godamn heavy book *after swearing all over again at my damn skripsi and feeling desperate plus extremely sad* called INTERPERSONAL DINAMIC and found myself drowning on Maslow’s pages…
he said *to his students actually*”Do you plan to be a psychologist?” “Well, yes!’ “Are you in training to be a mute or and inactive psychologist? What’s the adventage of that? That’s not a good path to self-actualization. No, you must want to be a first class psycholoist, meaning the best, the very best you are capable of becoming. If you deliberately plan to be less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you’ll be deeply unhappy for the rest of your life. You will be evading your own capacities, your own possibilities.”
As if he was talking to me back then. And start to ask myself.. what kind of psychologist im planning to be? or do i even still got that plan to be godamn psychologist? do i have the guts? do i really be able to push myself to reach my peak?
ever heard of The Jonah Complex? It is a partly a justified fear of being torn apart, of losing control, of being shattered and disintegrated, even being killed by the experience. Great emotions after all can in fact overwhelm us.
Truth it is… and i do believe that the biggest fear of mine is a fear of success, thou i never know exactly how’s it gonna be when i succeed… in every aspect of live, love, all!
aaaaaaaaah….
LORD… let me be what’s best from me… AMIEN…
R' Kurniawan said
aduw… kok bhs inggris sih?
ini posting buat orang bule ya mba?
sumpah bhs inggrisku payah
jadi gak bs koment bagus2 nih
huhuhuhuuh……..
hehehe ga buat bule mas…
cuma kebeneran buku yang dijiplaknya edisi inggris sih…
jadi ajah :p
mangga atuh komen di yang laen ajah hehehe
antown said
boleh saya jujur? kalo itu gambar di atas goresan mbak, saya sangat kagum sekali. gambarnya berkarakter, penuh emosi!!
mantap
hehehe dengan penuh kejujuran musti diakui itu bukan gambar saya… hasil menggoogling yang kira kira mirip tampang saya saat itu :p
fisha17 said
Yeah like Tukul always said, ’success is a terror.’
someting like that, maybe he’s right. But what’s a matter with u? Why u affraid? Are u a paranoid? Eh inggrisku bener gak seh. Dah lama gak ngomong bule. 
what matter with me is that i am losing a hope
hm bener ga yah? tanyakan pada yang lebih expert lagi sajah hehehe
arda86 said
baca paragraf 1… “hmmmm ya ya ya…ngerti ngerti…”
baca paragraf 2… “mulai bingung dan melotot2 sok serius (karena ngga ngerti) sambil pegang kamus oxford (malah bikin bingung)”
baca paragraf 3… “pingsan dengan mulut berbusa”
kesimpulannya KO di paragraf 3…seperti judulnya…so damn complex
huehuehuehuheuh tapapalah…
warmorning said
of course you can, definitely ! even such as a smart girl like you, huh why people from psychology i ever know always smart n expert n their english ?
huh? smart? who? where? :p
warmorning said
bukan jonah complex ah, tapi lebih ke natazya complex
, kok malah inget buku sybil yg baru kebaca ituh yah .. 
deuh… sing amit amit jadi sama ama sybil mah heuheuheuhe
achoey sang khilaf said
ga jadi komentar ah
ga ngerti
gapapah… udah baca tulisan aneh ini juga sudah sukur hehehe
GR said
Lha?
Don’t worried of success, nat…
cuz that will not make yourself drowning into darkness. Just think what you do at the moment and the success will welcome you at the future…
*sok ngartos pdhl pilon*
indra1082 said
Walah bahasa Bule…
Potone sopo iku?? hehehehe
poto saya tapi ceritanya saja
GR said
Keep on fire and don’t be stressed..
Just relax and joy it..
Don’t worry be happy, kan ada aku…
*halah.. GR GR!*
hehe…
GR said
Zah.. Gagal hetrix nih …
*ngeloyor pergi*
di atas atas teh ngomong apah? :p hehehe gagal… try again next time heuhuehuehe
nengthree said
karna pake bahasa inggris, aku ga bisa komen deh..
ekspresi gambarnya bagus tuh, gambar siapa nat?
gambar orang buu hehehe
itikkecil said
Not only the psychologist might has Jonah complex. A counselor like HIV counselor also might has that.
siapa saja bisa… cuma kebeneran yang ngomong Maslow dan di kelas calon psikolog jadi yah begitulah
ratutebu said
yup,, just do yor best ang let GOD do the rest,,
cuma dia yang tau apa yang bagus buat kita,, sukses atau ga suksesnya kan tergantung cara kita memandangnya,, kegagalan itu tidak pernah ada,, yang ada hanya kesuksesan yang tertunda,,
jangan pernah lupa, bahwa selalu saja ada hikmah disetiap kejadian,, ganbatte ne!!!
nice post sist!! ^^
yeap… i do believe that thou! thanks siez!
insansains said
^_^ Seneng baca buku-buku psikologi juga yach Non?
Yups.. setuju dengan Mss. ratutebu : Tak ada sebutir kejadian pun yang sia-sia!
^_^ Send your SMILE. …. ^_^
demen ama musti ada bedanya sih hehehe
akupun setuju dengannya!
makasih smile nya ^_^
wahyu said
I am imagining now……
If that girl is the girl who I’m loving right now…..
Oh… No….. I’m gonna be sick…. She’s so…. DAMN….!!!! Is it the real face…??? l
eits… dont judge a girl by her face huhuhu
alid abdul said
damn it… love the slap pic hehehe….
love it too for sure!
dtRS said
gbrny ga begitu rapi, g begitu bagus, g begitu indah, tp belum tentu gw bisa….. heheheh…..
ah… akupun ta bisa :p
theloebizz said
u r the best creature God ever created and so with everyone, with their unique points inside…
indeed we are!
hilda said
hmm,, so that’s The Jonah Complex.
bout success,,somehow i just believe that i’ll be success in the future. no matter what happens today, i’ll be success, for sure.
thats the spirit!
senny said
pasti bisa kok, bu! need2 try harder aja… pasti bisa kok…
good luck, yes!
TENGKYU SAY…..
chatoer said
Keep Struggling and no smoking hehehe
there is a will, there is a way….
Asyik ketemu lagi istilah2 psikologi,
-jonah komplex
-sybil
kalo maslow mah taunya yg piramida kebutuhan manusia
oedipus complex, imbisil, bla, bla, bla
da sybil mah nama orang tau… huehueheuehue pamer istilah xixixi
*ngapalin istilah2
hanggadamai said
wuahh, bahasa inggris lagi
hahuahuahuahua bahasa inggris ko cry :p
gamma said
ayoo, nat,kamu bisaaa…
hehe,nyelonong.. permisii…salam kenaal…
hihihi salam kenal juga buuuu
chic said
Jonah Complex? baru denger… hehehehe
akupun baru huehuehuhue
kelepon said
hahahha kayanya cuman bukan aku aja yang bingung ni..
ahh bahasa inggris lagi
kenapa yah… ah… aku merasa bersalah :p
Raffaell said
at that time…..
Ill let it all flow and enjoying doing crazy things…..
then i laugh..
yeap… to laugh at own stupidity is the best thing people rare to do!
Zulmasri said
Sory lidah saya lagi payah beringgris ria, mending blognya saya link saja.
okay pak ^_^
langitjiwa said
bentar aku buka kamus dulu,hehehehehehe….
mangga… masih banyak waktu :p
wennyaulia said
* fast reading
jadi mbak jonah itu siapa to?
heuheuhuehueueh jonah itu laki lho… :p
realylife said
amin
hope God heard all of our request , be best in our lives
AMIN…
aminhers said
Be patient please Miss.Nata !
Anizuw said
gue bangeeeeeeetttt….
sedih karena kenyataannya emang I’m inactive psychologist, but what can I do now?
I love being housewife, I love being lazy and wake up every morning and do nothing beside running daily routine as a Mom and wife…
Well,
I have to keep my plan on track but surely have to pending those juicy plans a bit longer. Continued studying psychology takes lot time and preasure, I cant handle it with my baby running and keep asking “why?” , “What?”, “how?”, “when?”…..
Tapi kita mesti janji nat, suatu saat kita bisa nerusin ilmu batin ini ke next level…paling ngga semua test diagnostik yg kita pelajarin, buku2 yg kita garis2 ngga jadi sia2…ihiks….
trully maddy saddly!!!
postingan yg menohok hati!!!